Coaches be like “Don't sell more than one thing at a time“

Let’s talk about selling more than one thing at a time as a coach.

I have never understood why people In this space swear by only selling one thing at a time.

I can’t get down with that.. again my triple split ADHD self needs variety.

If you think about it when you go into stores, when you are looking through catalogs, watching tv commercials.. stores and business everywhere are usually selling more than one product at a time.

They aren’t saying ok this month we will talk about JUST the washer then next month we will focus on the dryer, nope, they talk about them together and they let people decide if they need one or the other…or BOTH!

So here is your permission/ reminder that if you have multiple offers at any moment that LIGHT YOU UP … TALK ABOUT THEM & SELL THEM

Your audience can handle you talking about all of it. Your audience is smart, stop worrying about...

About 2 or so years ago I was sitting in one of my favorite bars with a couple of my girlfriends and saying to them “one day i’ll be talking about sex on the internet”

At the time I was helping people find food freedom in their lives..

So when I told them they looked at me and said “how the heck are you going to do that?”

At that moment I had no idea what it was going to look like to start talking about sex, with it being such a taboo topic and all

I just KNEW that it was in my calling, somehow, someway.

Sex, pleasure, orgasms, joy, fun, alllll the things have intrigued me since I was younger :)

And well here I am now helping women who are entrepreneurs, network marketers, content creators, and more find real PLEASURE in their lives.

Helping people connect to their Pleasure in and out of the bedroom has become my mission and it all starts by helping you connect back to YOU (mind, body, soul, spirit)

Here...

You will never be the Hero in everyone's story

because that would mean that you are living your life as a people pleaser…

And maybe right now you’re reading this like how did she know?

Do you find yourself OVER giving to your clients, family, friends, partners?

Do you worry that if you say no or change your mind that it will all come crashing down?

Do you think that people will think you’re a phony or that you can’t make up your mind?

I've been there. 

It is so important to change things that are NOT aligning with you. 

You can do it at any moment.

And it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks about it.

It’s time to stop living your life to please those around you.

Your pleasure awaits!

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Are you ready to transform your life and business in a sustainable way?  Let's chat! DM me @stephanielboyd_ ! 

Society loves that hustle energy!

Humans are just doing little bits of everything hoping that something sticks to help better their business, relationships, life…

Unfortunately, It doesn’t work like that...we can do all the strategies to get things to work but if our nervous system doesn't feel safe in the things we're working towards….it doesn’t really matter.

We have to learn how to slow down and allow ourselves to embrace all the things that are going on around you RIGHT NOW

Not when you lose those 5 lbs, not when you get caught up on those new Netflix shows, not when you finish your to do list

But the here and the NOW

Focus on the things that are going on inside of you

And what activates your nervous system...

Learn to embrace them rather then moving on to try to cover up those uncertainscaries (that’s uncertainties that are scary, coining it)

Are you looking to scale your business...

My top 3 tips to getting 10 new 1:1 clients in just 7 days!! ..

I’m sure you’ve seen posts like this before and have thought

“wow that sounds amazing”

“that would solve everything”

“Give me the tips, I need this!”

Trust me, when I first started in this online space I was thinking the same things

I have notebooks filled with my old desires saying things like

“I’m calling in 10 1:1 clients to come in or 50 women to sign up for my group program..”

I thought that’s what would make me successful, we see it all the time in this space about 10k months, 10k followers, 10 this 10 that…

It’s exhausting and on top of it I only thought that number was important because I saw it all over my news feeds.

so If you want my honest tips on getting those 10 1:1 clients here they are...

1. Dont
2. Do
3. It

It's time to get out of the mindset that you need a to make 10k months...

You can force yourself to do things in your business like making graphics, sending out emails, uploading all the things to your website…

Or you could loosen the grip and allow people to come in to support these tasks.

I understand that a lot of these tasks don’t take that much time BUT all the time you spend doing them adds up which is taking you away from having more FUN and JOY. 

Imagine all the fun memories you could be making if you loosened the grip and allowed others to come in to support your business.

This is why I outsource basically everything that I do. As a Manifestor, I have 1 million ideas a day, but I'm not designed to finish them all like other design types, that is why I have to have team members who can help me carry out my vision.

Looking to loosen the grip on all your business tasks but nervous everything will go to shit when you do? 

I’d love to help you work with your nervous...

The secret to having it all is knowing that you already do..

I know that you’re probably thinking but "Stephanie, I don't have all that I want.."

This is where I'd usually say that I hate to be the one to break it to ya, but I don’t...someone has to be honest out here :) and you can always count on me for honesty (from my perspective of the world anyway).

The way I see it as a recovering overachiever and people pleaser, you will never have all that you want. 

Especially when you are committed to your growth

Being committed to your growth means that new ideas, wants, desires are going to continue to come in and that is a beautiful part of the process..

So while it may feel like you don’t have all that you want, remember that there was a time where you DREAMED about being HERE.

I’m here to help you have massive impact that light you the fuck up with pleasure, joy, and FUN.  If you’re ready to...

Affirmations changed my life..

Hear me out on this one coaches/mentors/business owners..

Affirmations are great, they help..

Buuut they don't really create change at an identity level.

They are basically band aid fixes for your mind to focus on mean while your nervous system is freaking the fuck out.

It’s time to start focusing more of your attention on nurturing your nervous system, paying it attention, and listening to what your body is communicating to you!

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If you aren’t sure how to do this OR are looking to deepen your connection with yourself, my 1:1 containers are a safe space for you to work through anything that is no longer aligned in your life or business.

I want to help you become fully expressed in who YOU are and not feel like you are having a panic/anxiety attack every time you make a bold move!

More information about the ways to work with me here: Stephanie Boyd Coaching (mykajabi.com)